In part 1, I explored why social conservatism shouldn’t be considered an ally of neoreaction and discussed some preliminary thoughts on how a community that exemplifies traditional values might be crafted in an exceedingly hostile and unalterable culture. In part 2, I propose how neoreaction should view itself in relation to the red pill community.
The first step is to understand the mindset of the Red Pill man to see what he believes about reality and whether or not that is consistent with or opposed to neoreactionary understanding. From my experience, typical redpillers are usually in various stages of transition from liberal unreality to reality. The seed of transition is always motivated by the overriding instinct to reproduce, an instinct that no amount of progressive reform through education will be able to subdue. The first item of progressive faith on the chopping block is egalitarianism because it is the main point of indoctrination in education that prevents men from acting in ways that make them attractive to women. The rejection of egalitarianism is also a core principle of the dark enlightenment, so there is no conflict there.
Redpillers generally acknowledge the negative consequences of current sex culture, but they accept that as individual men they have almost no power to do anything about it and simply attempt to maximize their benefit given the social structure created by sex-positive feminism. I see this as both accurate and realistic, if fatalistic. In both these points, I can’t tell any appreciable difference between the redpillers and the neoreactionaries. The idea that a reactionary movement (social conservatism) will never succeed in reversing leftism is one that neoreactionaries developed and fully accept. There is no expectation that these problems can be fixed in a democratic system that appeals to the masses, and thus lowest common denominator. So again, neoreaction and the red pill are largely consistent.
In one of the most striking examples of overlap between the red pill and neoreaction, Roosh V penned the article “Cultural collapse theory“. This is pure neoreaction from one of the most prominent personalities in the PUA community and there is every indication that he isn’t happy about the situation. The cads are under no illusion that they are good for society.
Overall, when I look at the top tier people in the red pill community, I see there have been a lot of contributions and insights into human nature and the modern system. Many neoreactionary ideas owe at least some debt to primarily red pill bloggers and commentators such as chateau heartiste, dalrock, and girl writes what, among others. Some of the ideas that are part of neoreaction are completely original creations of the red pill community that were later adopted. In other words, the top tier of TRP provides invaluable contributions to neoreactionary thought.
From the above it can be discerned that the red pill is not a movement, it is an intellectual framework for analyzing and understanding reality. TRP is a tool set for sex relations as much as neoreaction is a tool set for analyzing culture and politics. What is done with that tool set is another matter entirely. If someone uses a hammer to go on a murder spree, that doesn’t make hammers bad. Being an accurate description of reality, the intellectual framework of TRP is, in fact, a subset of the intellectual framework of neoreaction by definition. You might consider neoreaction to be a RP framework expanded to more than sexual strategy or maybe the two parts evolved somewhat independently at first, but upon meeting are found to be compatible since reality can’t be mutually exclusive with itself.
However, there can be no doubt that the PUA movement, which is primarily responsible for developing the red pill framework, uses it to pursue actions with anti-civilizational effects. This can never be compatible with the stated morality of neoreaction. However, I don’t think it is appropriate to blame these men for their actions. Most positive masculine role models have been gutted from society and education. If they “man up” they will be subjected to a whole host of misandric laws. The women to who they are told to commit themselves to have not been raised to become suitable wives and once that potential is lost, it can’t be restored. Those women are simply lost. No man should ever marry a woman who isn’t suitable wife material and in our culture that means many men really don’t have even a single good option for marriage.
PUAs attempting to maximize their benefit in a social structure (sex-positive feminism) that they are dropped into and have no power over is healthy for these men personally and the product of a completely rational decision made upon careful consideration of the current incentives. Given the lack of respect men receive in our society, no one should be surprised that they shrug their traditional responsibilities. Neoreactionaries need to accept that men have to walk their own paths, and learn lessons first hand because we are unable to spare most of these guys from this path of education. The education system is designed to indoctrinate leftism and so most people will be leftist in some sense until they get smacked by the real world. For that reason, TRP phenomenon is to be welcomed gladly as the first step towards neoreactionary thought. Inevitably many of them will end up realizing that cadding isn’t quite what it was cracked up to be. In fact there are examples of older PUAs who have done just that. After the PUAs pass through the long, dark tunnel that is the experience of post-modern culture, it seems that most emerge with a set of beliefs that are consistent with neoreaction and can accept that traditional culture maximizes the benefit for everyone.
We are in the middle of the great relearning and PUAs are no exception. Neoreactionaries should take heart at the fact that the things which are learned hardest are learned best. There is only one way to convert the masses from their hedonism and that is the complete slash and burn caused by PUAs. Every broken heart, disillusioned soul, impoverished single mother, crime victim and even PUA is a proto-neoreactionary. The more the hedonists damage, the more people will want a different kind of society, and the faster things will either be righted or else everything will be completely destroyed. Being a neoreactionary means accepting that there will be unavoidable losses and preparing a tolerable route of transition for the former to avoid the later.
The fraction of society that is neoreactionary has far too little power to force any positive change onto the overall system that could provide incentives for men not to attempt a cadding lifestyle. Therefore, rather than wailing about the immorality of sex positive culture and being angry at fundamentally pragmatic men, neoreaction should continue to provide objective and empirical reasons why traditional values and patriarchy are better than other systems. The empirical evidence and first hand experience provided by the hook-up culture will probably be indispensable to these demonstrations. Analyzing this state of affairs will make the most insights on truth available for some hypothetical point in the future where there actually is the possibility for re-structuring society. That is far more persuasive than denouncing a generation or two of men who lost the cultural lottery, or trying to protect women who we don’t have the power to protect.
Some enterprising group might even attempt a virtual exist and through mastery of the red pill framework create a neoreactionary community that is appealing to men as described in part 1. If so, they will act as beacons of virtue who can also be pointed at to say “Look at how much better this community is! Would you rather be part of the degenerate culture or part of a thriving, civilization building community? Don’t you want security in your life and relationships and for your children?” Given a viable option, I suspect many or maybe most PUAs would sacrifice participation in the hook-up culture to work towards building civilization and their own families. What is needed is reasonable certainty that the women they married would make good wives, and absolute certainty that in the rare cases where that failed, the ex-wife would have no ability to deprive him of his wealth and children.Find other great dissident right content with the two Atavisionary RSS feeds: Atavisions and Prolific Atavisions. In addition, download the free ebook Smart and Sexy to learn what, how and why there are biologically based cognitive differences between the sexes
6 Replies to “Who is the true enemy of Neoreaction: The Red Pill or Social Conservatism? Part 2”
Hello, I’m not neoreactionary but I’m interested in these topics, so I hope you won’t mind if I offer a few thoughts for your consideration.
First, the problem is that a man’s previous sexual history does, in fact, affect his marital stability. In the study that Social Pathologist cited, it didn’t affect divorce stats the way it did for women, but Susan Walsh compiled this data from the GSS data:
If you’re going to build a community with a bunch of burned-out PUAs, statistically they’re likely to be all over each other’s women. I don’t think that’s going to make a stable society. (I wrote about this in an old blog post, if you are interested: http://sunshinemaryandthedragon.wordpress.com/2013/09/06/the-promiscuity-widower/ )
Second, I understand the impulse to eschew state-based marriage because it seems like that should clear up cash-n-prizes frivorce, but in fact it doesn’t do so if there are children present. Dalrock has concluded that the problem is primarily child support payments, and whether or not there was a legal marriage, a man (or theoretically a woman) will still be ordered by the courts to pay child support, which is the real incentive. So relying on the absence of legal marriage won’t work; you have to think through how you’d deal with child support issues.
And finally, using the church for a utilitarian purpose is unlikely to work when you are building churches from scratch. Using the church in a utilitarian way might work if the majority of the community were believers, but most neoreactionaries are not Christians. Conversely, using an established church like the Catholic church, which already has an established hierarchy, might work with a bunch of atheists. But creating a brand new church and developing its norms and hierarchies from scratch with a bunch of nonbelievers is not going to yield an institution with the power to regulate or even influence anyone’s behavior.
Well, anyway, I offer these thoughts in the spirit of friendly debate. Best wishes for success with your new blog.
Though the label of the image isn’t very clear, it seems to be trying to indicate that more sexual partners increases the risk of men cheating during marriage and this may be true, but doesn’t necessarily mean the men will divorce their wives or stop providing for their families. That is the actual standard of importance for men in marriage.
The problem is the idea that men and women are equivalent and bring the same assets to the union. In marriage, women trade their sexuality for male resources and provisioning. This is to give him a guarantee that the children he is providing for are in fact his. Women do not trade their sexuality for male sexuality because under no circumstances will they ever be able to doubt that their children are theirs. On the contrary, many women seem to prefer men with previous partners because it provides evidence that he is high value.
A woman’s greatest possible failure in a union is infidelity because when she married that is the resource she willingly traded to her husband. Post marriage, he owns that sexuality. A man’s greatest possible failure in a marriage is the abandonment or inability to provide for his wife and children. Post marriage, she (and her children) own his provisioning.
As a matter of principle and in the interest of harmony it is a good idea to strongly discourage male infidelity, but the relative gravity of the transgression is not as large as female infidelity. This is why I stated in my post that for men, sexual history is more optional. Leniency here wouldn’t destroy the community in my opinion. Though this is technically true, I certainly understand principled rejection of PUAs from the hypothetical community. More likely than facing PUAs off, though, I suspect you will have to decide to accept or reject men with a few to moderate level of previous partners (not true PUAs), so it wouldn’t be as clear cut.
I agree that in the current situation child custody is a problem. The only way around it for this hypothetical community would be for them to band together and resist any attempts by the state to enforce such payments, similar to how the farmers resisted the abduction of their cattle.
Speaking hypothetically now, as far as custody goes, it is the man’s duty to provide provisions for his wife and children, not the wife’s. Should a wife destroy the union, the children should be awarded fully to the father who will provide sole support as it was always his sole responsibility. Fully ejecting the woman who destroyed her marriage from the community implies that she should not even be allowed to see the children. If this sounds harsh to you, keep in mind that this is SUPPOSED to be a disincentive, it has to be harsh.
Trying to pull some small amount of money from her isn’t worth the cost of the community continuing to interact with her. Even today where women are “liberated” men as a group pull in most of the wealth so it is very unlikely that chasing after her will yield much anyway. It is better to simply accept that the man will have to shoulder all of the burden, but at least they get the full benefit of taking on the extra responsibility by having complete and sole access to their children.
I suppose I didn’t make it clear before, but I am an Atheist and have no intention of building churches. I simply meant to acknowledge the power of the church as a social technology and to point out that current churches are so progressive that they no longer work to support marriage. The reason I point out the story of Isaiah was to bring up the fact that such a church won’t appeal to most people, it will only appeal to the fraction of society you actually want to appeal to. From such a church’s standpoint chasing away nominal “christians” is a feature, not a bug.
I also wanted to point out that by reducing female promiscuity you are directly reducing male promiscuity. The number of men who naturally prefer to run game on women is far smaller then the number of women who are receptive to having game run on them. For many men the absence of women fit for marriage combined with the cultural reinforcements plus the misandric laws you are left with no choice but to run game or become an incel.
Wonderful job on this post, it echos my sentiments exactly. To those skeptical of PUAs adapting to a traditional setting consider an analogy. We have laws and traditions against killing but we celebrate killers with medals and titles, it’s all about context. We are all outsiders in a hostile land, our behavior here is subject to different standards than the standards that will be put in place when we finally build a home. When a PUA pump and dumps a feminist, he’s doing god’s work. When a PUA pump and dumps your daughter he’s really doing god’s work because otherwise you wouldn’t bother to build a new society. When a PUA pump and dumps a daughter of the new society, he’ll be strung up by his intestines. Yes there are PUAs who are trash, but there are many who are PUAs of last resort who would rather be patriarchs, what they learned as PUAs will help them be effective patriarchs.
There is a high correlation between men sleeping with lots of women and continuing sleep with other women after they get married.
I do not believe there is any correlation between men sleeping with lots of woman and being bad husbands.
I am not aware of neoreactionary opposition to PUA – probably because I tend to doubt the credentials of supposed neoreactionaries who oppose PUA.
Hello Jim, thanks for stopping by. This is a rather old post, and I think most of the questionable characters have already stopped calling themselves neoreaction by this point. Otherwise, I think these two have held up pretty well to the test of time.
>”I do not believe there is any correlation between men sleeping with lots of woman and being bad husbands.”
I made this point myself in a follow up post around the same time, but I have to admit not much research has been done on it. Or at least I I wasn’t able to find it. I highly suspect it is true however.